How To Ask For Forgiveness From My Spouse

Most times, many relationships have crumbled just because of the four letter words called PRIDE and another thirteen letter words called unforgiveness. The reason is not that one cannot forgive the other, but because of the four letter words involved in the life of one, he/she might feel like he is too big to and ask for forgiveness. Most times men never believe that they have wronged their spouse, they will always want her to be the one to ask for forgiveness, even though they were the one that wronged their spouse. 
How To ASk For Forgiveness From My Spouse
To ask for forgiveness doesn’t mean that your respect will no longer be there, but it simply means a way of showing how humble you are and also how humble you ould want your spouse to be when she is the one that wronged you as well. When one is wise, he/she should be ready to appeal or apologize when both wrongs each other. It doesn’t matter who did, what matters is how forgiven the words should be. 

Now, we will show you today how to apologize to your spouse when you have done wrong to him/her. It’s so great when anyone who offends each other to ask for forgiveness, but when you don’t apologize, it really kills the mind and the heart of the other, especially when they both are in a relationship. 

If they’re not in a relationship, whether you apologize or not, he/she might easily forget that you wronged him/her until when other days they both see each other but the honest word is that when you are in love and you both are not in good terms, it really hurt so deeply and it goes directly to the heart.

Ways To Apologize To Your Spouse

Drop A Letter

Dropping a letter to your spouse when he/she is off to work is really a romantic way to apologize to your spouse, though, they might still not value your letter much, but we all know that what is worth doing is worth doing well. 

In the write up of your letter, you have to make sure, that you really pour out your heart so as to win back your love again, even more than you have ever done before, it doesn’t make you lose your respect, but it really gives you all your full respect back to the way you never imagined. 

Another fun and simple way to apologize to your spouse is to write a true list of all the benefits and reasons why you love him/her. Never forget to conclude the list by asking for forgiveness and tell him/her why you did what you did. 

Throughout the list, share with him/her all of the reasons that your heart begins to beat fast when he walks in the room, and how much you love cuddling him/her on the couch. It really makes him smile and also have a forgiven spirit as well.

Buy Your Spouse A Gift

Buying gifts as a way to apologize is not really working out for a lot of people because they don’t know what to buy and they don’t know how to present it. 

When you are using gifts as a point of apology to your spouse, you must be ready to buy what he/she likes, when you buy what your spouse likes taking whether edibles or materials, you must be willing to humble yourself to as for forgiveness in a presentable manner using the gifts you bought. 

However, don’t think that every time you mess up or provoke your spouse you can just buy your way out of a mess. Remeber that After some time, the gifts begin to lose their meaning. Always make sure you don’t make it a habit. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER IN SAYING  I’M SORRY!!!.

Plan A Time Alone WIth Your Spouse

plan a romantic dinner at a quiet place alone with your spouse, and before the dinner, ask your spouse for forgiveness, if you must enjoy the dinner with your spouse. 

If you never asked for forgiveness, and you are asking your spouse out for dinner your spouse might be there for the dinner, but you will never enjoy it the way you want to enjoy it, the reason is that you have not done what you are supposed to do. 

When your spouse forgives you, especially when it comes from the heart, then the dinner will be made unforgettable. Make sure that as the dinner goes on, that you still apologize to your spouse and ask your spouse for more forgiveness, which will be automatically settled no matter how bad and hurt you might have hurt your spouse. Try it out! It works…

Physical touch

Physical touch is a powerful step to take especially when you wronged your spouse, although, you need to know the specific time to go for the physical touch. Sometimes all it might take for your spouse to forgive you is not even a gift but just a hug, a kiss, or a peck. 

Think of many times you both might have heard so many arguments, how did it end? It ended maybe by hugs. 

You just need to think of how a child forgives the mother even after the mother might have flogged the baby, after some time, when the mother carries the baby on her arms, the baby will hold the mother so tight or as well hug the mother, which shows a sign that the baby has forgiven the mother. It’s a simple way of asking for forgiveness, before what takes long to be forgiven, a common hug or kiss will sort it all.

Devise your own strategy

I believe that everyone has a strategy to make things happen for him/her especially when it comes to your spouse. When you have spent so long years with your spouse, you are supposed to have had a special way to ask for forgiveness from your spouse even without using any of this tricks listed above. 

When a woman is in love with a man, she will like to know and learn most things about the man, and the same thing is applicable to any man who loves his woman too. 

Therefore, using your own talent to ask for forgiveness can be the best way that will work out for you and your spouse, which will keep your relationship going and alive steady. If you are musically talented, write a song or even sing a song to your partner telling him/her how much you care. 

Think about the unique talents you possess and how you can use those gifts to better the relationship with your spouse, It has worked for so many people, it can still work for you. Just be Wise!!!.

Also Read, Some Common Things You Should Never Do In front Of Your Child Or Children

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