To spend quality time alone is one of the best secret of success, many people around the world today has really made their life a very noisy one which ion return never yielded a good result in their lives and in all ramifications of their personal well being. If you have never given yourself a quality time, it is really not encouraging and also, I must tell you today that you are not living your best life. what do I mean by your best Life? Living your best life is simply showing yourself the right way to take in life, the right steps to make in life and the right goals to achieve.
Most times in life when you are alone, that is when you can be able to do some important things in your life which will truly help you alone. Sometimes as well when you are left alone in a very quiet place alone, that is when you think of how to make it in life, then after thinking about the way to make it in life, as time goes on and you never give yourself more and more quality times, you will end up, not getting any benefits from the time you spent alone, which is really not manufacturing the best of you.
Wow! I came back from work today, I was so much happy with myself but I don’t really know what to do, I entered my room and locked up the door and window, with my lights turned on very low, No one knew that I was at home. I love spending time with my family but I’ve noticed that they have never given me time for myself alone, though I’m not blaming them for that rather I blame myself for not giving my personal life what it desires.
Now, I have this time alone with myself and for myself, I can now be there for myself and I could have a lot of things to think of, which is really things to do to make it in life. What to do to be successful in Life. It has not been easy for me, especially when my roommate is around, the reason is that my roommate likes playing kinds of music, and also my roommate can never stay alone without someone hearing his voice.He Is never a quiet type and he doesn’t care to have a quiet time for himself.
We are in a New year already and my new year resolution for this year is spend at least 30-45minutes alone in my room every night writing an article that will change the lives of people in a great way of greatness. This new year is the great year to start up a new habit which will change your life in a positive manner. The choice is yours to make today you must know that no one will live your best of life for you, try to make things happen, don’t among those who watch the people who make things happen. Try to be among those that will be watched.
Okay, Let’s tell you Ways Spending Quality Time Alone Will Change Your Life Today
If you spend quality times alone in the dark or with a low light alone in your room, maybe under the tree in your compound in the evening where no one distracts you or even try to come there to distract you with a form of distractions you will be thus:
* You Will Be Healthier
You can use your alone time to activate your mind in thinking positive, which is really a healthy thought for yourself, you can as well engage in any physical or mental activities like praying, jogging, or even meditating on your past life so as to yield a positive life more than you have ever done in your past years. Meditation, is one of the best mental exercises that help you live longer, makes you happy and keep your brain functioning normal and in returns give you a sound health. If at all you want to meditate, make sure you meditate on healthy books, meditate also on the word of God which is the best book for meditation no matter how much time you spent with it. What matters most is your health. Try it Out Boo!!!
* You Will Be Smarter Than You Use To Be
Spending time alone is not basically only for watching movies, playing games, and chatting on a social media. Hell No! That is wasting time. Many introverts spend their solitude reading books and articles or listening to podcasts. The benefits of reading in your quiet time are huge. If you are among those who spend time every day learning new things, you are just killing your time. Maximise your time to be professional in one thing before looking forward to learning another. though it’s not bad to learn new things, always have a choice and have limits on the things to learn.
* You’ll show up better for the people in your life
Showing up better for the people in your life is one of the greatest benefits of spending quality time alone in the dark or with light. Most times, you think that playing around with people is the best step you would ever take for them to love you, or for them to always want you. Well, It could be but the best thing to do is find the best time to time to spend with them, don’t make it a habit. make time very important to yourself first so that others can value it along with you. When you misuse your time, they will join you to help you kill more of your time. Don’t ever allow this year to be like other years you have wasted. A greater opportunity is on your way today. Grab it!!!
You Will Be More Energetic
Whether you are an introvert or an extrovert, spending time alone in a positive act of greater modifications is probably the best way of resting your physical body, mind, soul and brain too. When you give your self the quality time it desires, the more energetic you become, both mentally and physically.
You Will More Creative
Creativity comes from a quiet mind. If you must be creative, you must have time alone for your mind and brain. A quiet mind is a creative mind. Dr Ebere Michleal says. when you spend time alone, you may get unexpected flashes of creative insight. It might be a time for you to write a book or an article to be published which you never knew it will happen at all. This is how you get started. Many don’t really understand what it means to be creative. To a lay man’s understanding, being creative simply means, bringing into existence what does not exist with an existing creature. Many things around you today was being created by a creative mind like yours and today we all enjoy the idea without wondering how it came into existence.
Think Bout it: How did the telephone you are using today come into existence? laptops, desktops computers, types of machinery. printers and many much more other creatures. they were being created by creative minds like yours. Wake up from your slumber of delay and enter into the realm of creativity so that you can make things happen for yourself.